http://www.mycupidonline.com/finding-true-love.html Finding true love can become an obsession for some whose life pursuit sometimes becomes finding true love. en-us Fri, 04 Nov 2005 09:18:51 EST Fri, 04 Nov 2005 09:18:51 EST Weblog Editor 2.0 Is finding true love really possible? This is a question that can only be answered, we believe, by each individual, because after all they are only words. And some words like love and especially a love that is true, can be defined differently by different people. For some finding true love means simply finding a good partner in life, someone that you have many things in common, who shares your goals in life and stands by you throughout life's trials and tribulations. For others finding true love may come with insinuations of a much deeper bond, one that transcends all else, where there is no logic, just pure emotion. Either way finding true love is something that we all aspire to achieve in this life. We are compelled to break off into couples and together fight the battles and reap life's rewards. Finding true love is such an ingrained pursuit for most of us that we have the tendency to feel as thought here is no quality of life without true love, however we define it. It can really become an obsession for many. The pursuit can take up all of their thoughts, time, and energy. For some it can become the only thing they pursue as though once found it will solve all of the other shortcomings in life. But finding true love should be something that happens of its own accord and out of two people who are happy with themselves even when not in a relationship. When we are in a hurry to accomplish something and we feel a real sense of urgency, we can often overlook many important things and possibly settle for something that might not be the best for us. One should enjoy life as it is and work towards making their own life satisfying without placing that whole burden on someone else's shoulders. If we are not happy with ourselves, finding love will not make us any more so, at least not in the long run. Even those who chose to try finding love online should take it for what it is and not get too serious about it. Go out, make a few connections, and have a good time - just for the sake of having a good time! Fri, 04 Nov 2005 09:18:51 EST